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Life as a Store

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Some of us love shopping. Others—like myself—not so much. But no matter which camp you fall into, at some point we all have to go to the store. We go for food, for necessities, or for things we simply want.

Have you ever thought about how life is a lot like one big store?

When we walk in, the first thing we look for is the perfect cart—the one that rolls smoothly, with no wobbly wheels and no annoying squeaks. A cart that’s big enough and easy to push so we can get everything done with ease.

As we move through this “store,” there are aisles and aisles filled with everything we could ever want or desire. Things that look perfect for us. Things we’re convinced will make us happy. We load our carts with as much as they can hold, eyes wide, hearts full, laughing and enjoying every moment of what feels like happiness.

Eventually, the shopping trip comes to an end. We get in line, unload our cart onto the conveyor belt, and our excitement grows with anticipation.

But then imagine this.

The cashier takes all the items you wanted—the ones you were so excited about—places them into a box, and sets it aside. Instead, they hand you one item. The one you didn’t really want. The one that was supposed to be good for you. Then they smile and say, “Enjoy, and have a great day.”

What would you do?

Would you accept it with gratitude and walk away thankful?
Would you argue, confused and frustrated?
Or would you hand it back and leave upset and angry?

Many of us think of God as that cashier. We believe that if God were real, or if He truly loved us, we would get everything we wanted. We would walk out with the big box—not the one small thing we didn’t ask for or understand.

But I like to think differently.

I believe God is looking out for us. He knows what is good for us, even when we can’t see it. Even when it doesn’t make sense in the moment. And when we choose gratitude for the small things, we often realize we’re walking away with more than we ever expected.

The box can wait—sometimes one small gift is enough to carry you exactly where you’re meant to go.

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Cozy North Indian Lentil Soup for Spring

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Menopause- and gut-friendly

It’s almost spring, and with those lingering spring showers, this is the perfect cozy-but-light dish to enjoy.

I love making lentil soup and playing with different versions. This is honestly how I do my best cooking—following intuition and seeing what I can create. When I came across this recipe in my yoga magazine, I loved the simplicity and warmth of it and knew it would be one worth sharing.

Inspired by North Indian flavors, this soup is filled with warming spices that feel grounding, comforting, and supportive—especially during seasonal shifts and the hormonal transitions of menopause.

Ingredients

  • 1 tbsp coconut oil

  • 2 tbsp lentils, washed and drained

  • 1 tsp dried ginger

  • 3 large tomatoes, chopped

  • ½ tsp ground cinnamon

  • ½ tsp chili powder

  • ½ tsp black pepper

  • ¼ cup chopped cilantro, divided

  • 2½ cups water

Instructions

In a large pan over medium heat, warm the coconut oil. Add the lentils and dried ginger and sauté for a few minutes until fragrant.

Add the chopped tomatoes and cook until softened. Sprinkle in the cinnamon, chili powder, and black pepper, and cook for about one minute to allow the spices to bloom.

Stir in half of the cilantro and cook for another minute. Add the water and bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer, partially covered, for about 30 minutes, until the lentils are broken down and soft.

For a smoother texture, let the soup cool for about 5 minutes, then blend until smooth.

Top with the remaining cilantro and enjoy.

Why This Soup Supports Menopause & Gut Health

This dish is simple, but incredibly supportive—especially if digestion feels more sensitive or energy feels unpredictable during menopause.

Gut Health Support

  • Lentils are rich in soluble fiber, which feeds beneficial gut bacteria and supports regular digestion.

  • Ginger helps stimulate digestion, reduce bloating, and soothe the gut—something many women notice becomes more important during menopause.

  • Warm, cooked foods like soup are easier to digest than raw foods, supporting gut comfort and nutrient absorption.

Menopause Support

  • Plant-based protein from lentils helps stabilize blood sugar, which can reduce energy crashes, mood swings, and cravings.

  • Healthy fats from coconut oil support hormone production and help you feel satisfied after meals.

  • Cinnamon and black pepper support metabolic health and circulation, which can feel especially helpful during hot flashes or temperature shifts.

  • Tomatoes and herbs provide antioxidants that support inflammation balance and skin health as estrogen levels change.

This soup offers fiber, clean protein, warming spices, and gentle fats—all things the menopausal body tends to thrive on, especially during seasonal transitions.

Comforting, nourishing, and deeply supportive. 🌿✨

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I’m going to win!

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Running Toward What We Were Made For

On my morning walk the other day, I heard a big commotion coming from the front door of a house I was just about to pass. Curious, I looked up—and that’s when I saw her.

A very rambunctious three- or four-year-old girl was determined to get ahead of her dad and older sister. With all the speed her little legs could muster and shouting at the top of her lungs, she declared, “I’m going to win!”

And of course… she did.

She reached the car long before her family, who could have easily beaten her if they wanted to. In fact, they were telling her to slow down. But that didn’t dampen her spirits one bit. She jumped up and down in pure delight, celebrating what she already knew before she ever arrived—she had won.

Watching her made me stop and think.

How many of us still have that kind of childlike excitement? That bold ownership of good things to come. That deep-down knowing that we can do whatever we put our minds—and hearts—to.

That little girl didn’t focus on the obvious facts. She didn’t consider that her dad or sister could outrun her with very little effort. Instead, she surged forward with confidence, fully convinced of the outcome before it even happened.

Somewhere along the way, many of us lose that.

Instead of running toward possibility, we look at overwhelming odds and assume defeat. We weigh risks more heavily than hope. We quiet our voices instead of shouting, “I’m going to win!”

Maybe that’s something that happens as we age. Life has a way of wearing us down. The monotony, disappointments, and detours can leave us jaded—careful instead of courageous.

But what if we didn’t let go of that inner child completely?

What if we took our life experience, our lessons learned, and kept that childlike excitement alive? What if wisdom and wonder walked hand in hand?

There would be no stopping us.

I don’t believe you are ever too old to dream. If you have a pulse and breath still moving in and out of your lungs, why not? Why not believe again? Why not go for it?

As I was reflecting on this, I was reminded of the parable of the talents that Jesus shared in Matthew 25.

In the story, a master entrusts his servants with different amounts—each according to their ability. Two of the servants invest what they’re given and see it multiply. The third, overwhelmed by fear, hides his talent in the ground. When the master returns, the first two are praised for their faithfulness. The third is reprimanded—not for failing, but for doing nothing.

At first glance, Jesus’ response to the third servant can feel harsh. Casting him into “outer darkness” sounds extreme. But isn’t that often what happens when we leave our gifts unused?

When we bury what God has placed inside of us, we don’t just lose opportunity—we drift into despair. We begin to feel less than. Depression and hopelessness can quietly take root. To me, that is utter darkness.

I believe the One who created us knows we are meant for great things. And when we settle for less than what we were designed for, something inside of us dims. Not because God wants to punish us—but because He longs for us to live fully alive.

With a new year here, maybe this is our moment for a fresh start.

What if we decided this would be the year we fully embrace our God-given potential? The year we stop letting the naysayers—both external and internal—win. The year we stop burying our talents and instead make a run for it.

I love how Martin Luther King Jr. said it:

So run if you can.
Walk if you must.
Crawl if that’s where you are today.

Just don’t stop moving toward what you were created for.

And maybe—just maybe—shout “I’m going to win!” before you even reach the car

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Stuffed Peppers (with a twist)

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A Cozy Twist on Classic Stuffed Peppers (Vegetarian + Nutrient-Packed)

I love stuffed peppers. They’re one of those classic comfort dishes that never go out of style. And even as a vegetarian, I’ve always enjoyed how hearty and satisfying they can be.

That said… even the best classics can start to feel a little tired when they’re made the same way over and over again.

So on a cold night when I was craving that familiar, cozy dish, I decided to shake things up—just a little. You know how much I love putting my own twist on recipes, and this was one of those moments.

The result? A warm, flavorful, veggie-packed meal that feels comforting and nourishing—perfect for chilly days when your body wants something grounding.

Why This Version Is a Nutritional Win

Not only is this dish delicious, but the nutrition is seriously impressive:

  • Orzo instead of rice adds a lighter texture while still providing satisfying carbohydrates for energy.
  • Green bell peppers are loaded with vitamin C, which supports immune health—especially important during colder months.
  • Green chilis (like jalapeño and Anaheim) bring gentle heat and contain antioxidants that support metabolism.
  • Black beans provide plant-based protein, fiber, iron, and magnesium—helping keep you full and balanced.
  • Tomatoes add lycopene, an antioxidant known for supporting heart health and reducing inflammation.

This meal is a great example of how comfort food can still support your body from the inside out.

Ingredients

  • 1 cup cooked orzo
  • 4 green bell peppers, washed, tops removed and saved (seeds removed to create a “bowl”)
  • 1 small white onion, diced
  • 4–5 cloves garlic, diced
  • Your choice of green chilis (I used 1 jalapeño and 1 Anaheim), diced
  • 1 can stewed tomatoes
  • 1 can tomato sauce
  • 1 can black beans, rinsed and drained
  • ½ cup water
  • Salt, pepper, onion powder, and garlic powder to taste

Instructions

  1. Preheat your oven to 350°F.
  2. In a large pot over medium-high heat, add the diced onion, garlic, green chilis, and the reserved tops of the green bell peppers.
  3. Sauté until fragrant and the onions are nearly translucent.
  4. Add the can of stewed tomatoes, half of the tomato sauce, black beans, and seasonings. Stir well.
  5. Lower the heat and let the mixture simmer for about 10 minutes to allow the flavors to come together.
  6. Remove from heat and gently stir in the cooked orzo until evenly combined.
  7. Fill each green bell pepper with the orzo mixture and place them upright in a baking dish.
  8. Spoon the remaining tomato sauce over the tops of the peppers.
  9. Add ½ cup of water to the bottom of the pan to keep everything moist.
  10. Cover with a lid or foil and bake for about 45 minutes, until the peppers are tender and everything is bubbling and cozy.

(For those like me who are going through that wonderful change or experiencing extra stress check this amazing health benefits this dish offers you.)

How This Dish Supports Your Body During Menopause & Stress

During menopause—and even during high-stress seasons of life—our bodies need more than just calories. We need steady energy, blood sugar support, minerals, and anti-inflammatory foods that help calm the nervous system.

This stuffed pepper dish checks all of those boxes.

  • Plant-based protein and fiber from black beans help stabilize blood sugar, which is key for reducing energy crashes, irritability, and stress-related cravings.
  • Complex carbohydrates from orzo provide gentle, sustained energy—supporting cortisol balance instead of spiking it.
  • Magnesium-rich ingredients (like beans and tomatoes) help support muscle relaxation, sleep quality, and nervous system health—areas often affected during menopause.
  • Vitamin C from green bell peppers supports adrenal health and immune function, both of which can become depleted during chronic stress.
  • Warm, cooked foods are easier to digest and naturally calming for the body, making this meal especially supportive when hormones feel out of sync.

When estrogen begins to fluctuate, inflammation and stress sensitivity can increase. Meals like this—warm, balanced, and nutrient-dense—help signal safety to the body, supporting both hormone balance and emotional well-being.

Sometimes nourishment isn’t about eating less or cutting more—it’s about choosing foods that ground, comfort, and truly sustain you.

Final Thoughts

This dish is comforting, nourishing, and endlessly customizable. You can add cheese, fresh herbs, or even swap the beans depending on what you have on hand—but this version has quickly become one of my favorites.

Warm, simple, and full of goodness—exactly what we need on cold days 💚

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When “Let’s Go” Was All It Took

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I was recently remembering a time when my kids were little and car rides were such an adventure. All I had to say was, “Let’s go,” and off we went.

This was before kids had tablets or phones the moment they could hold them—yes, I’m aging myself. But honestly, I had two of the most fun kids to travel with. I really did.

My son would often fall asleep almost as soon as the car started moving. And my daughter—well, to her credit—she was content just riding along. She could be happy in the car all day, simply being part of the journey.

As I think back on those days of adventure, I’ll admit it wasn’t always easy. Were there mishaps? Of course. But for the most part, we just kept going. There wasn’t much fuss, and more often than not, there was laughter.

And that’s when I had to stop and ask myself something.

Do I still live like that?

Can I just up and go—trusting the journey—even when things don’t go according to plan? Can I roll with the punches the way my kids and I did all those years ago? Or have I become someone who expects everything to work out because I’m doing everything the “right” way?

Sometimes I do roll with it.
But other times?
I worry. I get scared. I get crabby.

My adventurous spirit isn’t quite what it used to be—and I’ll admit that.

So when I was reading Mark 4:35–41, I had a bit of a lightbulb moment. Or maybe my lightbulb had burned out and was finally replaced—but either way, this passage struck a nerve.

In verse 35, Jesus says to His disciples, “Let us go over to the other side.” The goal was simple: to leave the crowd behind.

What stands out to me is that there’s no mention of the disciples complaining about the trip. They don’t question the plan. They don’t ask for details. They just go.

They seem ready for whatever Jesus asks of them.

Then the storm comes.

The waves toss the boat. Chaos sets in. And Jesus—who has already performed miracles, who made the sea itself—is asleep.

Have you ever wondered why, after everything they had seen, the disciples became so afraid that they woke Him up?

(Spoiler alert: Jesus not only wakes up—He calms the sea.)

I don’t have to wonder.
I know exactly why.

And I’m guessing you do too.

We humans are a funny lot, aren’t we?

We love the idea of adventure.
We want to say yes to the journey.
But when things get hard… we want the calm sea.

We want trust without turbulence.
Faith without fear.
Movement without mess.

Yet Jesus never promised a storm-free crossing.
He promised His presence in the boat.

Maybe the invitation isn’t to avoid the storms—but to remember who’s with us when they come.

So today, maybe it’s time to hear those words again:

“Let us go over to the other side.”

Even if the waters get rough.
Even if the plan changes.
Even if the adventure looks different than we imagined.

Because the same Jesus who said “Let’s go”…
is the same One who still calms the sea.

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Easy Baked Tofu Cacciatore

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Comforting, hands-off, Italian-inspired

I had an extra block of tofu to use up, didn’t want to do much standing or “stay in the kitchen” kind of cooking, and I was craving something Italian. That can feel like a tall order—especially when you’re busy and don’t want to run to the store.

So this is what I made.

It’s easy, mostly hands-off, and even my meat-eating son enjoyed it. 🙌
Think cozy cacciatore vibes, without the meat.

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A Quick Tofu Texture Tip

If tofu’s texture is a bit much for you, soak it in a warm saltwater bath for about 15 minutes. This helps it feel less curd-like and more tender.

If you’d rather skip soaking, wrap the tofu (whole or sliced) in a clean towel and place something heavy on top for 10–15 minutes to press out excess moisture.

Ingredients

  • 1 block extra-firm or firm tofu

  • Marinara sauce (homemade or store-bought both works well)

  • 1 small potato

  • 1 bell pepper

  • 1 small carrot

  • 1 small onion

  • 4–5 garlic cloves, diced

  • Sea salt and black pepper, to taste

  • Grated cheese (optional)

Instructions

  1. Preheat oven to 350°F.

  2. In a roasting pan or 9×9 baking dish, spread a small amount of marinara sauce—just enough to coat the bottom.

  3. Drain the tofu and place it in the center of the pan.

  4. Cut the potato, bell pepper, carrot, and onion into large, bite-sized pieces and arrange them around the tofu.

  5. Sprinkle vegetables with sea salt, black pepper, and diced garlic.

  6. Pour the remaining marinara sauce over the tofu and vegetables.

  7. If using, sprinkle grated cheese over the tofu.

  8. Cover and bake for 35–40 minutes.

  9. Remove the cover and check that vegetables are tender. Bake uncovered for another 10 minutes, just until the cheese browns slightly.

  10. Remove from oven, slice the tofu, and serve over cooked pasta.

Serving Notes

  • Serves 2 people with hearty appetites

  • Makes great leftovers

  • Lovely with any kind of pasta, a simple green salad or crusty bread

Nutrition Notes (Why This Meal Works)

This tofu cacciatore is simple comfort food, but it also delivers solid nourishment without feeling heavy.

Tofu

  • Excellent source of plant-based protein

  • Contains iron and calcium (especially if calcium-set)

  • Easy to digest compared to many animal proteins

  • Absorbs flavor beautifully in tomato-based sauces

Vegetables

  • Tomatoes: Rich in lycopene, an antioxidant that supports heart health

  • Bell peppers & carrots: Provide vitamin C, beta-carotene, and natural sweetness

  • Onion & garlic: Support immune health and digestion

Potatoes

  • Provide potassium and fiber

  • Add grounding, satisfying energy to the dish

Overall, this meal balances protein, complex carbohydrates, and fiber in a way that feels comforting and sustaining.

Menopause-Friendly Nutrition Notes

During menopause, our bodies often crave meals that are warming, steadying, and blood-sugar supportive—without being overly rich or inflammatory. This tofu cacciatore fits beautifully into that season of life.

Protein for Muscle & Metabolism
As estrogen declines, maintaining muscle mass becomes more important. Tofu provides high-quality plant protein to support:

  • Stable energy

  • Metabolism

  • Strength and recovery

Gentle on Digestion
Many women notice increased digestive sensitivity during menopause. This meal uses:

  • Cooked vegetables

  • A soft, easy-to-digest protein

  • Slow, oven-baked preparation

All of which are kinder to a changing gut.

Blood Sugar Support
Combining protein (tofu), fiber-rich vegetables, and complex carbohydrates (potato and pasta) helps reduce blood sugar spikes—often linked to:

  • Fatigue

  • Mood swings

  • Cravings

  • Hot flashes

Anti-Inflammatory Comfort
Tomatoes, garlic, onions, and colorful vegetables provide antioxidants that support inflammation balance, while the overall dish remains warming but not overstimulating.

This is the kind of meal that nourishes without asking too much from your body—simple, grounding, and supportive.

A Little History: Where “Cacciatore” Comes From

The word cacciatore comes from the Italian word meaning “hunter.”

Traditionally, dishes like pollo alla cacciatora (chicken) or coniglio alla cacciatora (rabbit) were considered hunter-style meals—rustic, practical food made with what was available.

Classic cacciatore cooking usually included:

  • Tomatoes or tomato sauce

  • Onions and garlic

  • Herbs

  • Sometimes wine

  • Whatever protein was on hand

It was never meant to be fancy. Cacciatore meals were nourishing, forgiving, and meant to be shared.

This tofu version honors that same spirit—just with a modern, plant-forward twist.

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Mindful Living: Embrace the New Year One Day at a Time

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A New Year, One Mindful Day at a Time

I am enjoying the first days of this new year—but truthfully, I always do. There is something about the turning of a calendar that feels hopeful to me, even when life itself has felt heavy. I’ve always believed that a new year carries possibility, especially when it follows seasons of pain.

For me—and I know I’m not alone—the last four years have felt like one hit after another. Loss, exhaustion, uncertainty, and grief seemed to arrive without pause. So, when I say I was ready to see this past year end, that feels like an understatement. I entered this new year not with grand expectations, but with a quiet hope for reprieve… for a little more ease, a little more breath.

I’ve never been one to stay up late to ring in the new year. I never have been. Instead, I cherish waking up on New Year’s morning, when the world feels hushed and new. There is something deeply comforting about beginning the year slowly, without noise or pressure.

That morning, I take time to reflect on the year behind me. I sit quietly. I pray. I ask myself what needs to be released—what no longer serves me—and I intentionally let it go so I don’t carry it forward. And that’s where my new year begins.

I don’t make New Year’s resolutions.

I know they work well for many people, and there’s nothing wrong with them. But for me, each new day holds its own resolution. The definition of a resolution is “to resolve to change an undesired trait or behavior, to accomplish a personal goal, or to otherwise improve one’s life.” When I look at it that way, I realize I don’t need a year-long promise. I need daily intention.

I choose to resolve one day at a time.

Living this way feels less overwhelming. It feels attainable. And because of that, the changes tend to be deeper and more lasting. When I choose daily to live a mindful life, I naturally begin to live more simply—and I find myself happier in ways that can’t be measured.

Recently, I came across a list of Zen practices that stopped me in my scrolling. I saved it, wrote it down, and sat with it. These weren’t goals to achieve, but gentle reminders for how to be. They felt like an invitation to slow down and live with intention.

To do one thing at a time.
To do it slowly and deliberately.
To do it completely, without rushing ahead to what’s next.

To do less, and trust that less can still be enough.
To put space between things—between tasks, between commitments, between moments—so life can breathe.

To develop rituals, even in the smallest ways. Morning coffee in silence. Evening prayer. Folding laundry with care.
To designate time for certain things, instead of trying to do everything all at once.

To devote time to sitting. To be still. To listen. To rest without guilt.

To smile and serve others, knowing that kindness—given freely—has a way of returning when we need it most.

To allow cleaning and cooking to become meditation. To find peace in the ordinary. To be fully present in the work of caring for a home and a body.

To think about what is truly necessary. Not what is expected. Not what is trending. But what is essential.

And ultimately, to live simply.

This is what I want to carry into this new year—not a checklist, not pressure, not perfection—but presence. A mindful way of living that honors where I am and what I need.

So, if you’re someone who loves New Year’s resolutions, maybe try this instead:
Take each day as it comes. Ask yourself what today is inviting you to work on. Choose mindfulness over momentum. Presence over pressure.

Live gently. Live deliberately. And see how you feel when you arrive at this time next year.

One day at a time is enough.

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No Bake Energy Ball

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Listening to My Energy in Menopause

Now that it is a new year, I have been reflecting to a time not so long-ago. It was during Christmas break; I had been spending my time exactly where I wanted to be — enjoying my grandson while he’s home for winter break. Those slow mornings, laughter-filled afternoons, and unstructured days filled my heart in ways I didn’t even realize I needed.

But somewhere along the way, my body quietly let me know it was feeling a little run down.

Menopause, pots and cancer have taught me to pay attention to those signals. Energy doesn’t dip without a reason anymore. Hormonal shifts, winter’s slower rhythm, disrupted sleep, and even joyful busyness can all add up. I’ve learned that pushing through only leaves me more depleted — so now I pause and ask, what kind of support does my body need right now?

That’s what inspired today’s recipes.

I remembered seeing simple energy balls on a Young Living website and decided to try making a few batches. They came together quickly, required no baking, and felt nourishing instead of stimulating. And most importantly — they actually helped. Not in a jittery way, but in a steady, grounded way that felt supportive during this season of life.

Winter can feel especially sluggish in menopause, so having gentle, food-based energy on hand has been a small but meaningful shift for me. These energy balls offer natural carbohydrates for fuel, fiber and healthy fats for blood sugar balance, and a touch of citrus or herbal vitality that feels uplifting without being overwhelming.

What I’ve also learned is that true menopause-friendly energy is holistic.

Food matters. Rest matters. And so does internal support.

Alongside nourishing snacks like these, I lean into Oliveda internal support to help my body build energy from the inside out:

  • I66 to support inflammation balance and cellular stress

  • I70 to support metabolic function and sustained vitality

  • I01 to nourish the gut, where so much of our energy and hormone communication begins

When digestion, inflammation, and cellular health are supported, energy doesn’t have to be forced — it can be rebuilt.

Menopause has shifted my definition of wellness. It’s no longer about doing more, but about choosing what truly supports me. These energy balls are a small example of that mindset: simple, nourishing, and made with intention.

If you’re feeling a little slower this winter, I hope these recipes feel like an invitation to listen inward and support your energy gently — one bite at a time.

Essential Oil Disclaimer (Menopause-Specific)

These recipes use Young Living Vitality™ essential oils, which are labeled for dietary use. Essential oils are very concentrated, and during menopause some women may be more sensitive. Start with the lowest amount listed, listen to your body, and consult a qualified healthcare professional if you have concerns, are taking medications, or have underlying health conditions

🍊 Tangerine Burst Chocolate Energy Balls

Prep Time: 10 minutes
Total Time: 15 minutes
Yield: 14 balls

Ingredients

  • 32 pitted dates

  • ½ cup quick oats

  • ¼ cup hemp seeds

  • 2 tablespoons cocoa powder

  • ¼ cup coconut flour

  • 12 drops Tangerine Vitality™ essential oil

Instructions

  1. Process dates in a food processor until they form a thick paste.

  2. Add oats, hemp seeds, cocoa powder, coconut flour, and Tangerine Vitality essential oil. Process until a firm dough forms.

  3. Using a medium cookie scoop, roll dough into bite-sized balls.

  4. Roll in cocoa powder, if desired.

  5. Store in an airtight container.

 

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No More Looking Back

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Looking Ahead Without Looking Back: What Letting Go Really Means

With the new year just beginning, everyone seems focused on looking ahead — fresh mindsets, new goals, even slimmer waistlines. But if we’re honest, those intentions often last only a short while before we slide back into old habits, don’t we?

Last week and part of this one, I found myself grumpy, irritated, and holding onto a grudge I didn’t want to admit was forming. Someone acted in a way that, in the past, had caused real hurt. Their behavior brought up old wounds I thought were long gone. And then I got mad at myself — for talking to them, for being around them, for ignoring my own caution. I ended up not only hurt by their actions but also frustrated with my own expectations.

Because that’s the thing about expectations: we place them on people who have shown us exactly who they are, and then we feel surprised — even betrayed — when they act according to their nature. I wasn’t just mad at them; I was disappointed in myself for expecting something different.

And that’s the danger of expectations. Instead of letting things be what they are, we create a version of someone in our mind and then feel the pain when reality doesn’t match.

For days I carried this weight — the grudge, the resentment, and a “who cares” attitude that didn’t feel like me. Finally, this morning, I reached the point where enough was enough. I prayed. Then I took a piece of paper and wrote “Current” on one side and “Release” on the other.

Under “Current” I wrote a positive feeling I wanted to hold onto.
Under “Release” I wrote the negative feeling from the past — the one that had reattached itself to me.

I prayed over it. And then I went outside and burned the paper.

And honestly? I felt a weight lift.

But God wasn’t done speaking.

When I came back inside, I opened my Bible to Genesis 19 — the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah. A story I thought I knew by heart. There are even jokes about Lot’s wife being turned into salt. But as I read, something new stood out to me.

I saw a connection between my grudge and the danger of looking back.

Everyone remembers that Lot’s wife looked back and turned to salt. But what struck me was that her name is never mentioned. Her identity is tied only to what she did — not to who she was becoming.

And that made me think of something:
In Scripture, when God moves someone forward, He often renames them.
Abram becomes Abraham.
Sarai becomes Sarah.
Jacob becomes Israel.

A new identity for a new future.

They looked ahead — believing God’s promises — instead of clinging to the past.

Lot’s wife, on the other hand, is defined only by her backward glance.

And I realized: holding onto past hurt keeps us frozen. It keeps us salty, stuck, and unable to step into the future God is offering.

But naming who we are — who God says we are — helps us walk forward without needing to look back.

Letting go of that grudge reminded me that I don’t have to stay attached to old pain. God is always inviting me forward, into renewal, into identity, into promise.

And this morning, with a little paper, a prayer, and a flame, I finally said yes to that invitation.

Needing to do that too? Here is a prayer and Bible verses to encourage and help you move forward into this new year.

Father God,
Thank You for the gentle way You show me when I am holding onto something You never meant for me to carry.
Thank You for revealing the places in my heart where old wounds still try to speak louder than Your truth.

Lord, help me to look forward — not back.
Help me release every grudge, every disappointment, every expectation I have placed on others or myself.
Replace those heavy burdens with Your peace.

Just as You gave new names and new beginnings throughout Scripture,
speak over me the name You have for me today —
the one that calls me into my future, not my past.

Give me courage to walk where You lead,
faith to trust what You promise,
and grace to forgive what I cannot change.

I surrender the past to You,
and I step forward into the freedom You offer.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

➡️ Letting Go of the Past

Isaiah 43:18–19
“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!”

Philippians 3:13–14
“…forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead…”

➡️ God Giving Us a New Identity

2 Corinthians 5:17
“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.”

Genesis 17:5
“No longer will you be called Abram… your name will be Abraham.”

Genesis 17:15
“Sarai… you are no longer to call her Sarai; her name will be Sarah.”

➡️ Moving Forward in Faith

Psalm 32:8
“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go…”

Proverbs 4:25–27
“Let your eyes look straight ahead… do not turn to the right or the left.”

➡️ The Warning in Lot’s Wife

Genesis 19:26
“But Lot’s wife looked back, and she became a pillar of salt.”

➡️ God Lifting Our Burdens

Matthew 11:28–30
“Come to me, all who are weary and burdened…”

Psalm 55:22
“Cast your cares on the Lord and He will sustain you.”

➡️ God’s Promises for a Renewed Future

Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the plans I have for you…”

Ezekiel 36:26
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you.”

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Poached Pears

Posted on by junebugphx

A Simple, Cozy Dessert: Mom’s Stovetop Poached Pears

Warm, comforting, and beautifully simple—poached pears are one of those timeless desserts that bridge everyday ease with a sense of elegance. Today’s recipe comes straight from my mom, who has always had a knack for turning a few ingredients into something memorable. (Thanks, Mom!)

This version is cooked on the stovetop rather than in the oven, making it quicker and perfect for weeknight cravings or unexpected guests.

A Bit of History: The Origin of Poached Pears

Pears have been cherished for thousands of years. Cultivated as early as 1000 BC in regions stretching from ancient Persia to Europe, they became a favorite fruit for both everyday meals and royal feasts.

Poaching fruit—particularly pears—became popular in medieval Europe, when households often cooked with wine, spices, and honey to preserve fruit and create warming dishes for colder seasons. Spices like cinnamon and nutmeg, both present in this recipe, were considered luxury goods and were used sparingly to elevate special meals.

By the 17th and 18th centuries, French cooks refined the dish into iconic versions like Poires Belle Hélène and Poires au Vin Rouge. Despite these fancy renditions, home cooks also kept simpler versions alive—like this one—using water, sweetener, and a few spices to coax out the fruit’s natural flavor.

The stovetop recipe beautifully reflects this simpler, more rustic tradition of poaching: minimal ingredients, minimal time, maximum comfort.

Poached Pears Recipe

Ingredients

  • 2 pears (any variety works)

  • A handful of raspberries (fresh or frozen)

  • Cinnamon and nutmeg, to taste

  • Agave syrup or honey

  • A small pat of butter

  • Splash of water

Instructions

  1. Wash the pears and slice them in half. Remove the core.

  2. Sprinkle with cinnamon and nutmeg, then drizzle with honey or agave.

  3. Add a pat of butter to each pear half.

  4. Place in a skillet with a small amount of water and cover.

  5. Cook on medium heat for 15 minutes.

  6. Add raspberries, cover again, and cook for another 10 minutes, until tender.

  7. Serve warm and enjoy a cozy, naturally sweet dessert.

Nutritional Notes: Why This Dessert Is Good for You

Poached pears aren’t just delicious—they offer several nutritional benefits:

Pears

  • High in fiber (especially soluble fiber), which supports digestion and helps maintain stable blood sugar.

  • Rich in vitamin C, vitamin K, and antioxidants that help combat inflammation.

  • Naturally sweet without added sugar, making them a great alternative to heavier desserts.

Raspberries

  • Loaded with antioxidants like quercetin and ellagic acid.

  • High in dietary fiber—one of the highest among fruits.

  • Provide vitamin C and manganese, supporting skin health and immune function.

Cinnamon & Nutmeg

  • Cinnamon helps with blood sugar balance and adds flavor without needing much sweetener.

  • Nutmeg contains trace minerals and compounds linked to calming effects and digestive support.

Honey or Agave

  • Natural sweeteners with a lower glycemic impact than refined sugar (though still to be used lightly).

Butter

  • Adds richness and helps the spices bloom; using just a small pat keeps the dish light.

Overall, this dessert is nourishing, high in fiber, antioxidant-rich, and satisfying without being heavy—perfect for mindful eating or a wellness-oriented lifestyle.

I would love to hear in the comments your versions of this elegant, delightful dessert.