We all have those moments when we are waiting “for an expected and inevitable event to occur” and maybe those moments turn into years if not a lifetime. I had been living like that since my cancer diagnosis. Sure, I would have bouts of thinking I was leaving it in God’s hands with feelings of some peace and once feelings of no matter what I’m fine, in fact clear understanding of true peace was felt but like every human being out there I would let the whispers of doubt come. Times when the whispers would become shouts and even joining in by telling myself I had every right.
I know I’m not alone; we all have things in our lives that shout at us, and we let them shout, if not join in. This may be normal behavior, but it doesn’t mean you have to live this kind of life. There has to come to a point don’t you think, when you’ve had enough, or you’re not living at all just existing until the outcome of death comes. That’s a depressing thought, but it doesn’t have to be that way.
Many of us are living in autopilot mode, going through the motions of our daily routines without really living or experiencing life. We let our fears, doubts, and insecurities hold us back from truly pursuing our passions and dreams. But what if we changed our mindset and chose to live intentionally? What if we silenced those negative voices in our heads and started listening to who God says we are?
Living intentionally means being present in the moment, making conscious choices that align with your values and goals, and taking responsibility for your own happiness. It means being mindful of how you spend your time and energy, focusing on what truly matters to you, and letting go of things that no longer serve you.
When we live intentionally, we break free from the autopilot mode and start living with purpose. We begin to see opportunities instead of obstacles, and challenges become opportunities for growth. Instead of being driven by fear, we are guided by faith and trust in ourselves and in God’s plan for our lives.
It can be scary to step out of our comfort zones and take control of our lives, but it is also incredibly empowering. When we choose to live intentionally, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities and potential. We no longer settle for mediocrity or just going through the motions; instead, we strive for greatness and fulfillment.
Living intentionally also means being intentional with our relationships. It means prioritizing quality time with loved ones and investing in meaningful connections. We let go of toxic relationships and surround ourselves with people who support and uplift us.
One important aspect of intentional living is self-care. Taking care of our physical, mental, and emotional well-being allows us to be the best versions of ourselves for both ourselves and others. This can include setting boundaries, practicing mindfulness, and engaging in activities that bring us joy and recharge our batteries.
Intentional living also involves setting goals and actively working towards them. We identify what we truly want in life and create a plan to achieve it. This can involve breaking down big goals into smaller, actionable steps, holding ourselves accountable, and celebrating our progress along the way.
Of course, intentional living is not about perfection or having everything figured out. It’s about being present and making conscious choices that align with our values and priorities. It means recognizing that we have a limited amount of time and energy, so it’s important to use them wisely.
One way to incorporate intentional living into our daily lives is by creating a morning routine. This can include activities such as meditation, journaling, exercise, or simply taking some quiet time for ourselves before starting the day. By setting aside intentional time for self-care, we set the tone for the rest of our day and cultivate a sense of calm and purpose.
Another aspect of intentional living is decluttering and simplifying our physical space. Our surroundings can greatly impact our mental well-being, so clearing out unnecessary clutter can help create a more peaceful and organized environment. This can also extend to our digital space, such as unsubscribing from unnecessary emails or limiting time spent on social media.
In addition to decluttering our physical and digital spaces, it’s important to declutter our minds as well. Practicing mindfulness and being present in the moment can help us let go of negative thoughts and worries, allowing us to focus on what truly matters. This can also involve setting boundaries with others and saying no to things that do not align with our values or goals.
Intentional living also involves being intentional with our relationships. This means surrounding ourselves with people who support and uplift us, while also letting go of toxic relationships that drain us mentally and emotionally. It’s important to invest time and energy into meaningful relationships. So, on this Valentines Day, take the time to reach out to loved ones and let them know how much they mean to you. Enjoy this moment, this day because we’ll never have another one like it, even if that shoe does drop at least, you lived a life worth living before it did.
Matthew 6:24 says: Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes. When we worry about the other shoe dropping, we miss the joy in the present moment. (The Message Version)
Good message! Intentional living💜
Thank you!